I was reminded of the topic of ‘who has bigger balls’ the other day as I drove down a local road and passed an oncoming pickup truck with antlers mounted to the grill.
And I do admit that I have donned something or put some sticker on my vehicle to display my pride or identity.
How does this relate to finance?
Many conversations about finance are high jacked by someone taking the role of the ‘know-it-all’ bragging about some investment or strategy. I believe I learned my lesson several years ago that this type of talk neither impresses anyone nor does it provide any clarity for someone’s personal financial well being. I witnessed one of these conversations was with a financial adviser in the area. I can only hope that this fellow knew about what he was talking about because I tuned out a few minutes into his lengthy monologue.
Here is the danger. Whoever is doing the explaining should be the one to read your body language and ask if you are tracking along. Don’t be like one of my clients who told me they were too embarrassed to ask their bank professional for clarification because they understood so little about what was going on. This is the security of your family we are talking about here. We did not allow one client who was ready to put a substantial amount of wealth towards a plan we had presented to him because he could not clearly explain how the work we had done would benefits his estate. Subsequently, we scheduled another teaching session to reteach the financial literacy required for understanding.
You may also be getting scammed. You should never invest in something you do not understand. If someone is unwilling to dedicate time to teach and explain it to you then it is too good to be true. Even if what is being said is valid, as for an article, book or do more research on your own. Ask for the contact information of a client who was satisfied with their work – and not just a year out. Ask for a 10-year track record.
So, it really shouldn’t matter if someone has bigger antlers or more money than you. If they can’t respect your dignity by teaching you, or prove beyond a shadow of a doubt that their strategy is solid…then who cares?
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Thanks to david-mcmahon.blogspot.com for the photo for this article.